The Oceanside beach is not the most revered beach along the southern California coast. It is however quite lugvely to me because I can recount hundreds of amazing memories here. Playing games, roasting Starbursts, sleeping in the sun, dancing in the waves,  and loving life. To you it may be just another beach, or maybe you share similar memories. 

Perspective matters. The problem is that we all have different perspectives. We can't help it. All of our experiences change how we approach situations. The only thing I can do is try to explain what it is that I see and to try to understand what you see. I don't understand why people seem to be so afraid of looking at something in a new way. Maybe I don't even need to tell you how I see it, maybe all you need to do to find something new is to just tilt your head.